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January 2025

How am I Different

Final word: try this koan on for size: “You were never born: You will never die.”
If you agree with the words, you ignore the reality: you were born; you will die. If you disagree with the statement, you ignore all the Buddhas, the patriarchs, and other illuminated beings from time immemorial – as in yesteryear.
 
Also, you ignore your own birth right. To quote Plato/Socrates, “Have you forgotten to remember?
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Who Can You Trust

Who Can You Trust?

 
20. A Mother’s Advice JIUN, A SHINGON MASTER, was a well-known Sanskrit scholar of the Tokugawa era. When he was young he used to deliver lectures to his brother students. His mother heard about this and wrote him a letter: “Son, I do not think you became a devotee of the Buddha because you desired to turn into a walking dictionary for others. There is no end to information and commentation, glory and honor. I wish you would stop this lecture business. Shut yourself up in a little temple in a remote part of the mountain. Devote your time to meditation and in this way attain true realization.”
 
Reps,Paul; Senzaki, Nyogen. Zen Flesh, Zen Bones: A Collection of Zen and Pre-Zen Writings (p. 52). (Function). Kindle Edition.
 
Boy Sitting Japan
 
Picture this ChatGPT rendition? Neither do I.
 
How about this “modern day” rendition?

 Boy Sitting NY

 
Again, you buy in? Doesn’t turn my crank either!
 
Given the many peoples professing a positive pitch, (gotta like alliteration in writing), of their products in the great internet meverse, how d’ya distinguish that which offers a pathway to directly seeing/experiencing the unborn, sometimes referred to as the Buddha, mind and those, who churn out visions, pictures, words of bliss?
 
Easy for me, or anyone, to quote the Buddha and offer his advice:

"Of course you are uncertain, Kalamas (people). Of course you are in doubt. When there are reasons for doubt, uncertainty is born. So in this case, Kalamas, don't go by reports, by legends, by traditions, by scripture, by logical conjecture, by inference, by analogies, by agreement through pondering views, by probability, or by the thought, 'This contemplative is our teacher.' When you know for yourselves that, 'These qualities are unskillful; these qualities are blameworthy; these qualities are criticized by the wise; these qualities, when adopted & carried out, lead to harm & to suffering' — then you should abandon them.”
 Buddha to Follow

Yes, the Buddha spoke dharma and although his words are used by me, they’re not definitive.
When I first spoke to Suco, an enlightened 75-year-old Vietnamese Buddhist nun, (beside immediately recognizing each other’s worth) I said to her, “Do you know, that when after crossing the Great Water, it’s useless to carry the raft on your back?” She nodded and smiled in agreement.
 
See https://www.consequences.life/blog/ for an account after a meeting a couple of weeks afterward. “Open Suco Letter”
 
Enlightenment/Self Realization is not and end. It’s the beginning of finding your birthright as a human being and growing older, yes, but also discovering a True, continuously expanding depth/breadth, in Wisdom.
 
To use a Cowboy, red-neck colloquialism, “You’ll no longer be an old fart/fartress wasting space.”  
 
Oh, crossing the Great Water represents the search for the unborn, all illuminating mind and the raft signifies Dharma. When gifted, when circumstance come together, and illumination happens, Dharma, being a vessel once used, is no longer needed when exploring new vistas but it is still useful as kindling to fire the aspirations of others.
 

Al and Butters

 

If you can’t trust a Cowboy with his Hound: Who can you trust?

 

Open Suco Letter

Open Letter Sent to Suco
Suco,
Came to our meeting last Wednesday with few expectations. Thought perhaps i could match the breadth & depth of my experience with the width & depth of yours.
Allow me to use an Alberta, red-neck, cowboy phrase; unfortunately/fortunately, looks like i brought a knife to a gunfight, meaning i soon realized your experience/knowledge was/is well beyond mine.
You were very kind, very older sisterly: you peeled a lychee then fed it to me. Explaining the element of Dharma beyond the Suttas as not luck but was another law of Dharma. That was like peeling the lychee (i began to grasp/experience the implications immediately); then, giving me Bankei Roshi was like popping the lychee into my mouth.
Simply put, am grateful, very grateful: Three kowtows before you.
Took me a long time to put the experience into words. i had a fuzzy but background experience of the unborn Buddha Mind which i lived with for many years. Found that other Masters, like me, were not satisfied with their experience until they ran into the koan, “No body; No Mind”.
Struggled with the koan for many years. until you, explaining the Dharma as not luck, started brining the never born, all illuminating, Buddha Mind into full focus. Adding Bankei Roshi an incredibly unexpected bonus.
Now, fully live, “No body: No mind”, but add to it “Have body: Have mind”. See/experience as clear as day.
Gassho with deep bows hands folded in prayer bowing toward you,
In Meta,
al

Total Freedom

"We shall not cease from exploration             And the end of all our exploring             Will be to arrive where we started             And know the place for the first time. . ." (poem continues)
Yes, i arrived from the place i'd started and knew the place for the first time. Knew Home! Knew: beyond, beyond beyond. Read More…

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